Cultural expectations surrounding the elderly are being challenged today, and with good reason!
While it was the norm to slow down and retreat into a quieter life post-retirement, more men and women are finding purpose and joy in doing the opposite.
WisdomCircle honours such men and women by shining light on their journey through an inspiring series called “Wisdom Stories”. These people have successfully smashed stereotypes, and their stories remind us that life should be lived to the fullest, no matter what age or stage.
There were many turning points in my life. The first was very early when I won my first medal in 7th grade for a debate. Before this, I had tried all the tricks in the book to win a medal but failed. My mother saw my frustration and shared some advice which I did not fully grasp till much later “karmanye vadhikaraste ma phaleshu kadachana” – focus on the now. After winning the medal, I was a different man.
The second turning point was when I did not make the cut for Indian Administrative Services but qualified for Indian Police Services. I reflected on the “why”, and this exercise came in handy, and pushed me forward. I prepared well for the next attempt and not only did I qualify but I did well enough to get my Home State. Never give up and enjoy the ride.
The third turning point was when I was diagnosed with 3rd/4th stage cancer 2 years ago. This incident reinforced my philosophy of being in the present and enjoying every moment. The doctors said it could be cured, and they were proven right.
I have always spoken truth to power, which professionally translated to working closely with politicians and holding my own. A professional turning point came in my early career when I was transferred after taking on a powerful politician. I learned to accept what was beyond my control with equanimity. Much later, I was in a similar predicament again and I told my reporting officer that transfers are inevitable, much like death. I wouldn’t worry about it. As a follower of Hindu philosophy, I also believe that I will be reborn and will carry on without fear or favour. While my values remained steadfast, my understanding of politicians changed over the years. I began my career thinking that all politicians were corrupt but I got the chance to work with outstanding politicians that led to a change of heart. I understood their context and limitations and am more at peace with myself.
When I was working with the Ministry of Labor, I was disenchanted with the lack of intent around me. I focused on finding a project with high impact and the result was Rashtriya Swastha Bima Yojana, a health insurance scheme. Later this project went on to be regarded as best-in-class globally. Focus on what you can, and not on what you can’t.
My parents deeply impacted my worldview. My father was very punctual and a meticulous planner, traits I have imbibed from him. I found a document at the age of 10-12 years where he had planned my path to being an IAS officer! My mother was very grounded and gave me values of honesty and integrity.
Today, I am associated with Nexus For Good, a foundation set up to promote good work. I travel around 20 days a month as a Speaker, addressing varied issues on a range of topics. I also guide civil service aspirants, especially in the interview process. I write two columns every week and have written four books. However, the role I cherish the most is that of a grandfather. I missed spending much time with my children and am making up for it.
When I was in service, I did not have a choice to pick and choose my assignments. Now I do, and I am enjoying the freedom. I am living firmly in the present and following my mother’s advice to the hilt – “karmanye vadhikaraste ma phaleshu kadachana”
– Anil Swarup
Interview and Photo Credit – Saonli Bedi
